Angela Deem from 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? shares an Instagram post, alluding to why she continued her relationship with Michael Ilesanmi despite all the red flags. Meemaw was happy when she invited her Nigerian husband to the United States in late 2023. While Angela’s relationship with Michael wasn’t the best, she hoped to build a bright future with him. Unfortunately, Angela’s hopes and dreams crashed after Michael gave up on their marriage and took off. She was heartbroken to discover that he didn’t just flee from her but also joined a new community within a few weeks.
Recently, Angela reposted an Instagram post from @endnarcissisticabuse, suggesting the reason she stayed with Michael for almost seven years, ignoring his deceit. She posted a long message about “narcissists” and “love bombing,” implying that Michael trapped her into continuing the relationship. The quote read, “narcissists always leave their victims hanging, using methods of lovebombing devaluing & discarding on repeat to keep them trapped in a state of anxiety.” While Angela didn’t refer to Michael directly, she emphasized that his actions drove her to get “mad” and “react.” She insinuated herself as the “survivor” and “victim” of her husband’s abuse.
It isn’t the first time Angela has referred to herself as a victim. Over the months, she has consistently posted similar content, identifying herself as an abuse “survivor.” It seems Angela wants others to believe she isn’t accountable for her past actions. Rather, she aims to illustrate that Michael’s toxic behavior caused her to be perceived as the villain in their relationship. It’ll be interesting to see if Angela’s lawyer can effectively present her perspective in court. Perhaps Angela and her attorney would try to tarnish Michael’s reputation by any means necessary.
Our Take On Angela Deem Revealing Why She Stayed With Michael
When Angela banned Michael from using social media, she was often seen partying and cozying up with other men in the United States. The 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? alum has shown traits suggesting that she was never a victim but rather someone who exhibits narcissistic behavior.